What is a Prostrate Massage?
Massaging the prostate directly is a delicate procedure. If you have ever had a prostate exam from your physician, you will know that. To protect both the giver's and receiver's health, always use a latex or vinyl glove, and suitable lubricant. Gloves are available in most pharmacy chain stores, or supermarket. Lubricants can be purchased online or in adult stores. I use unscented neutral massage oil. Key element to a pleasant and relaxed prostate massage is to use extra care when working in this delicate area. It is imperative to pay attention to the recipient's body response. One finger is inserted into the anus, slowly to let the body accept the procedure. This is the first test , if the anal muscles start clinching together, the provider must withdraw from the area. If the body accepts the initial contact, then slowly proceed toward the base of the penis inside until you find a small peanut size area. That is the prostate. When direct contact is made with the prostate, slowly run the finger around the area. As the massage continues, you will feel the area around the prostate swelling and becoming larger and harder. That is soft tissue , it protects the organ from damage and intrusion. As soon as contact is made, the particles that have adhered to the inside wall of the prostate will fall down into the main reservoir. The body then automatically starts expelling these particles. As they exit the body via the urethra, you can feel and see them. Sometimes they feel like sand grains or sugar crystals, I have seen them as large as rice grains. It is not relevant whether an orgasm or ejaculation follows or not. If the recipient is relaxed and enjoys the treatment, you may be able to stay right on the prostate all the way through the release. Sometimes the sensations become overwhelming and you have to retreat.
Sometimes the body and mind are not ready for this kind of "intrusion", even with the best preparations. Do not worry about it, just take your time, try it again another time.
Massaging the prostate directly is a delicate procedure. If you have ever had a prostate exam from your physician, you will know that. To protect both the giver's and receiver's health, always use a latex or vinyl glove, and suitable lubricant. Gloves are available in most pharmacy chain stores, or supermarket. Lubricants can be purchased online or in adult stores. I use unscented neutral massage oil. Key element to a pleasant and relaxed prostate massage is to use extra care when working in this delicate area. It is imperative to pay attention to the recipient's body response. One finger is inserted into the anus, slowly to let the body accept the procedure. This is the first test , if the anal muscles start clinching together, the provider must withdraw from the area. If the body accepts the initial contact, then slowly proceed toward the base of the penis inside until you find a small peanut size area. That is the prostate. When direct contact is made with the prostate, slowly run the finger around the area. As the massage continues, you will feel the area around the prostate swelling and becoming larger and harder. That is soft tissue , it protects the organ from damage and intrusion. As soon as contact is made, the particles that have adhered to the inside wall of the prostate will fall down into the main reservoir. The body then automatically starts expelling these particles. As they exit the body via the urethra, you can feel and see them. Sometimes they feel like sand grains or sugar crystals, I have seen them as large as rice grains. It is not relevant whether an orgasm or ejaculation follows or not. If the recipient is relaxed and enjoys the treatment, you may be able to stay right on the prostate all the way through the release. Sometimes the sensations become overwhelming and you have to retreat.
Sometimes the body and mind are not ready for this kind of "intrusion", even with the best preparations. Do not worry about it, just take your time, try it again another time.
